gallusrostromegalus:
Congratulations on your new best friend! I’m not a professional dog trainer or vet or anything like that, but I can give you some general advice based on my life expirinces:
a quick summary of what you need to do to keep your dog stimulated:
EXERCISE YOUR DOG AND INCLUDE THEM IN AS MANY ACTIVITIES AS POSSIBLE
- #1 thing to keep your dog mentally stimulated and emotionally fulfilled and also too tired to eat the couch? EXERCISE. I literally have to walk Charlie 4-6 miles a day for him to get the movement and stimulation he needs. If the weather’s bad or I otherwise can’t take him out, I have to play with him in 20-30 minute bursts three or four times. Remember: Doggo can’t read or watch TV or play videogames so seeing the outside world is pretty much ALL of thier entertaiment. Exercise will also keep doggo in good shape, thier joints working and help them live longer.
- #2 issue: Dogs are crazy social animals and You Are Thier Friends, Family And Soulmate All At Once, they wanna with you, doing things with you, or just in your general vicinity all the time. Obvs you can’t take them Everywhere for safety and health reasons, but when you guys can be together, make that an option for the dog. Teach your dog Kitchen manners so they can hang out with you while you’re cooking and eating. Watching TV? Cuddle dog on couch! Going on errands and it’s not too hot or cold out? Bring doggo in car for the ride. Family game night or a party? Take doggo for a walk first to shed some excess energy, and allow them to meet guests!
- #3 DOGS LOVE BEING TRAINED. no really they’re interacting with thier favorite person, getting treats and doing something fun! it’s great! If they’re reasonably good with other dogs, training classes are funtimes for both of you, that will make doggo easier to take care of and also a lot safer. If you can’t afford classes, there are a zillion books and youtube videos on how to train your dog (some much better than others but I’m gonna farm this post out to actual dog training people to talk about that) and doing a 15-minute practice session is also good playtime.
How to keep your dog Comfortable:
- Go throught and Puppy-proof your house for Obvious problems BEFORE doggo gets home, and be ready to do it after too. Cover and hide cables like powercords or ethernet, lock up ALL food but espcially food that could be dangerous to them (If you’re not particularly attached to them I reccomend getting rid of rasins and grapes, as they can kill a dog in under half an hour if they eat enough), ckeck to make sure all your doors shut properly, and keep anything you wouldn’t want mistaken for a chew toy up where Doggo can’t get to it.
- Keep a close eye on your dog’s behaviors, and if you notice something that makes them uncomfortable, mitigate thier exposure to that thing, or help them learn to chill about the thing. Dogs are just like people in that they have random things that frighten them. Most dogs don’t like the vaccum, so do the vaccuming while doggo is out being walked or at daycare. Practice touching sensitve areas of your dog (ears, paws looking in thier mouth. lifting up thier tail etc) and giving them treats and cuddles, so vet exams are less stressful.
- Give them comfortable things! If you don’t want your dog on the couch, make sure they have a comfortable place in the living room with you. They like toys to play with, some dogs like having a blanket to snuggle with (some even like to be tucked in at night, like charlie).
- Make sure your dog likes thier food? that seems like a dumb thing but if you notice your dog leaving food in thier bowl or seeming disinterested in thier food, there might be something wrong with it. Or you’re making them eat something they hate. Imagine if you had to eat your least favorite food every day!
There’s more, but it’s also 1 AM and there are people who know way more about this than me.
Hey @caniwritemywayout – I’m not a dog trainer but sort of a dog training nerd, you can find some great resources for training instructions, game/stimulation suggestions and valuable info on reading dogs’ body language on these channels (as well as recommendations for other channels and websites):
https://www.youtube.com/user/kikopup
https://www.youtube.com/user/supernaturalbc2009/featured
Steer clear of self-described dog trainers or “dog whisperers” who talk a lot about dominance or even mention anything to do with alphas, that shit has been disproven for ages, and of using aversive stimuli (anything that hurts or scares your dog) which has been shown to further aggression (and is just generally no way to treat a friend).
All the best with your new best friend 🙂